Relationships can get messy when you are trying to break out of it. Any break-up, from a long or short-term relationship, is an act which makes anyone feel upset and leaves a mark of sadness on the person. But if you have decided to break up, then stick to your plan, and cut to the chase. There are several things you should watch out for in any relationship in the process of the breaking up and moving on.
1. Think well before breaking up. Do not take any decision lightly.
2. Do make it short, and final if you are sure. Do not break up and then make right back up, and then break it off again. This attitude is the kind we call “on and off” and that’s sort of unhealthy, in the sense, it leaves a lot of pain, and result in a shallow attitude towards relationship.
3. Take your decision seriously. Half the pain in your life shall disappear if you learn to take any relationship’s finality with some amount of gravity. Be a person of your word, and accept the loss. A clean break and a fresh start is a must.
4. Do not fall for emotional blackmail. Yes, sounds too hard, but that is exactly what you should avoid. Tears are natural, and pain is too. But if you have made the decision of leaving, then leave and do not elongate the scene into a long, traumatic drag.
5. Once done, do not look back. It will only induce more pain and sadness.

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